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<div2 id="Prov.xxviii" n="xxviii" next="Prov.xxix" prev="Prov.xxvii" progress="86.01%" title="Chapter XXVII">
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<h2 id="Prov.xxviii-p0.1">P R O V E R B S</h2>
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<h3 id="Prov.xxviii-p0.2">CHAP. XXVII.</h3>
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<h4 id="Prov.xxviii-p0.3">Miscellaneous Maxims.</h4>
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<scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p0.4" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27" parsed="|Prov|27|0|0|0" passage="Pr 27" type="Commentary"/>
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<scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p0.5" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.1" parsed="|Prov|27|1|0|0" passage="Pr 27:1" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.1">
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<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p1">1 Boast not thyself of to morrow; for thou
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knowest not what a day may bring forth.</p>
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<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p2">Here is, 1. A good caution against
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presuming upon time to come: <i>Boast not thyself,</i> no, not
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<i>of to-morrow,</i> much less of many days or years to come. This
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does not forbid preparing for to-morrow, but presuming upon
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to-morrow. We must not promise ourselves the continuance of our
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lives and comforts till to-morrow, but speak of it with submission
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to the will of God and as those who with good reason are kept at
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uncertainty about it. We must not <i>take thought for the
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morrow</i> (<scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p2.1" osisRef="Bible:Matt.6.34" parsed="|Matt|6|34|0|0" passage="Mt 6:34">Matt. vi. 34</scripRef>),
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but we must cast our care concerning it upon God. See <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p2.2" osisRef="Bible:Jas.4.13-Jas.4.15" parsed="|Jas|4|13|4|15" passage="Jam 4:13-15">James iv. 13-15</scripRef>. We must not put
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off the great work of conversion, that one thing needful, till
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to-morrow, as if we were sure of it, <i>but to-day, while it is
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called to-day,</i> hear God's voice. 2. A good consideration, upon
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which this caution is grounded: <i>We know not what a day may bring
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forth,</i> what event may be in the teeming womb, of time; it is a
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secret till it is born, <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p2.3" osisRef="Bible:Eccl.11.5" parsed="|Eccl|11|5|0|0" passage="Ec 11:5">Eccl. xi.
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5</scripRef>. A little time may produce considerable changes, and
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such as we little think of. We <i>know not what</i> the present
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<i>day may bring forth;</i> the evening must commend it. <i>Nescis
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quid serus vesper vehat—Thou knowest not what the close of evening
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may bring with it.</i> God has wisely kept us in the dark
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concerning future events, and reserved to himself the knowledge of
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them, as a flower of the crown, that he may train us up in a
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dependence upon himself and a continued readiness for every event,
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<scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p2.4" osisRef="Bible:Acts.1.7" parsed="|Acts|1|7|0|0" passage="Ac 1:7">Acts i. 7</scripRef>.</p>
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</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p2.5" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.2" parsed="|Prov|27|2|0|0" passage="Pr 27:2" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.2">
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<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p3">2 Let another man praise thee, and not thine own
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mouth; a stranger, and not thine own lips.</p>
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<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p4">Note, 1. We must do that which is
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commendable, for which even strangers may praise us. Our
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<i>light</i> must <i>shine before men,</i> and we must do good
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works that may be seen, though we must not do them on purpose that
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they may be seen. Let our own works be such as will praise us, even
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<i>in the gates,</i> <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p4.1" osisRef="Bible:Phil.4.8" parsed="|Phil|4|8|0|0" passage="Php 4:8">Phil. iv.
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8</scripRef>. 2. When we have done it we must not commend
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ourselves, for that is an evidence of pride, folly, and self-love,
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and a great lessening to a man's reputation. Every one will be
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forward to run him down that cries himself up. There may be a just
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occasion for us to vindicate ourselves, but it does not become us
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to applaud ourselves. <i>Proprio laus sordet in ore—Self-praise
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defiles the mouth.</i></p>
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</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p4.2" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.3-Prov.27.4" parsed="|Prov|27|3|27|4" passage="Pr 27:3-4" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.3-Prov.27.4">
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<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p5">3 A stone <i>is</i> heavy, and the sand weighty;
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but a fool's wrath <i>is</i> heavier than them both. 4 Wrath
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<i>is</i> cruel, and anger <i>is</i> outrageous; but who <i>is</i>
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able to stand before envy?</p>
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<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p6">These two verses show the intolerable
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mischief, 1. Of ungoverned passion. The wrath of a fool, who when
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he is provoked cares not what he says and does, is more grievous
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than a great stone or a load of sand. It lies heavily upon himself.
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Those who have no command of their passions do themselves even sink
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under the load of them. The wrath of a fool lies heavily upon those
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he is enraged at, to whom, in his fury, he will be in danger of
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doing some mischief. It is therefore our wisdom not to give
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provocation to a fool, but, if he be in a passion, to get out of
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his way. 2. Of rooted malice, which is as much worse than the
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former as coals of juniper are worse than a fire of thorns.
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<i>Wrath</i> (it is true) <i>is cruel,</i> and does many a
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barbarous thing, <i>and anger is outrageous;</i> but a secret
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enmity at the person of another, an envy at his prosperity, and a
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desire of revenge for some injury or affront, are much more
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mischievous. One may avoid a sudden heat, as David escaped Saul's
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javelin, but when it grows, as Saul's did, to a settled envy, there
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is no <i>standing before it;</i> it will pursue; it will overtake.
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He that grieves at the good of another will be still contriving to
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do him hurt, and will keep his anger for ever.</p>
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</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p6.1" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.5-Prov.27.6" parsed="|Prov|27|5|27|6" passage="Pr 27:5-6" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.5-Prov.27.6">
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<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p7">5 Open rebuke <i>is</i> better than secret love.
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6 Faithful <i>are</i> the wounds of a friend; but the kisses
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of an enemy <i>are</i> deceitful.</p>
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<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p8">Note, 1. It is good for us to be reproved,
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and told of our faults, by our friends. If true love in the heart
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has but zeal and courage enough to show itself in dealing plainly
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with our friends, and reproving them for what they say and do
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amiss, this is really <i>better,</i> not only than secret hatred
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(as <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p8.1" osisRef="Bible:Lev.19.17" parsed="|Lev|19|17|0|0" passage="Le 19:17">Lev. xix. 17</scripRef>), but
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<i>than secret love,</i> that love to our neighbours which does not
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show itself in this good fruit, which compliments them in their
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sins, to the prejudice of their souls. <i>Faithful are the reproofs
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of a friend,</i> though for the present they are painful as
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<i>wounds.</i> It is a sign that our friends are faithful indeed
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if, in love to our souls, they will not suffer sin upon us, nor let
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us alone in it. The physician's care is to cure the patient's
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disease, not to please his palate. 2. It is dangerous to be
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caressed and flattered by <i>an enemy,</i> whose <i>kisses are
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deceitful</i> We can take no pleasure in them because we can put no
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confidence in them (Joab's kiss and Judas's were deceitful), and
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therefore we have need to stand upon our guard, that we be not
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deluded by them; they are to be deprecated. Some read it: <i>The
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Lord deliver us from an enemy's kisses, from lying lips, and from a
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deceitful tongue.</i></p>
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</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p8.2" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.7" parsed="|Prov|27|7|0|0" passage="Pr 27:7" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.7">
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<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p9">7 The full soul loatheth an honeycomb; but to
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the hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet.</p>
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<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p10">Solomon here, as often in this book, shows
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that the poor have in some respects the advantage of the rich; for,
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1. They have a better relish of their enjoyments than the rich
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have. Hunger is the best sauce. Coarse fare, with a good appetite
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to it has a sensible pleasantness in it, which those are strangers
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to whose hearts are <i>overcharged with surfeiting.</i> Those that
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fare sumptuously every day nauseate even delicate food, as the
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Israelites did the quails; whereas those that have no more than
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their necessary food, though it be such as <i>the full soul</i>
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would call <i>bitter,</i> to them it <i>is sweet;</i> they eat it
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with pleasure, digest it, and are refreshed by it. 2. They are more
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thankful for their enjoyments: <i>The hungry</i> will bless God for
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bread and water, while those that are <i>full</i> think the
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greatest dainties and varieties scarcely worth giving thanks for.
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The virgin Mary seems to refer to this when she says (<scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p10.1" osisRef="Bible:Luke.1.53" parsed="|Luke|1|53|0|0" passage="Lu 1:53">Luke i. 53</scripRef>), <i>The hungry,</i> who
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know how to value God's blessings, <i>are filled with good
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things,</i> but <i>the rich,</i> who despise them, are justly
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<i>sent empty away.</i></p>
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</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p10.2" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.8" parsed="|Prov|27|8|0|0" passage="Pr 27:8" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.8">
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<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p11">8 As a bird that wandereth from her nest, so
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<i>is</i> a man that wandereth from his place.</p>
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<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p12">Note, 1. There are many that do not know
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when they are well off, but are uneasy with their present
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condition, and given to change. God, in his providence, has
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appointed them a place fit for them and has made it comfortable to
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them; but they affect unsettledness; they love to wander; they are
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glad of a pretence to go abroad, and do not care for staying long
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at a place; they needlessly absent themselves from their own work
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and care, and meddle with that which belongs not to them. 2. Those
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that thus desert the post assigned to them are like <i>a bird that
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wanders from her nest.</i> It is an instance of their folly; they
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are like a silly bird; they are always wavering, like the wandering
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bird that hops from bough to bough and rests nowhere. It is unsafe;
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the bird that wanders is exposed; a man's place is his castle; he
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that quits it makes himself an easy prey to the fowler. When the
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bird wanders from her nest the eggs and young ones there are
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neglected. Those that love to be abroad leave their work at home
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undone. <i>Let every man therefore, in the calling wherein he is
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called, therein abide,</i> therein abide <i>with God.</i></p>
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</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p12.1" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.9-Prov.27.10" parsed="|Prov|27|9|27|10" passage="Pr 27:9-10" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.9-Prov.27.10">
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<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p13">9 Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so
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<i>doth</i> the sweetness of a man's friend by hearty counsel.
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10 Thine own friend, and thy father's friend, forsake not;
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neither go into thy brother's house in the day of thy calamity:
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<i>for</i> better <i>is</i> a neighbour <i>that is</i> near than a
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brother far off.</p>
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<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p14">Here is, 1. A charge given to be faithful
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and constant to our friends, our old friends, to keep up an
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intimacy with them, and to be ready to do them all the offices that
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lie in our power. It is good to have a friend, a bosom-friend, whom
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we can be free with, and with whom we may communicate counsels. It
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is not necessary that this friend should be a relation, or any way
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akin to us, though it is happiest when, among those who are so, we
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find one fit to make a friend of. Peter and Andrew were brethren,
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so were James and John; yet Solomon frequently distinguishes
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between a friend and a brother. But it is advisable to choose a
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friend among our neighbours who live near us, that acquaintance may
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be kept up and kindnesses the more frequently interchanged. It is
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good also to have a special respect to those who have been friends
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to our family: "<i>Thy own friend,</i> especially if he have been
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<i>thy father's friend, forsake not;</i> fail not both to serve him
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and to use him, as there is occasion. He is a tried friend; he
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knows thy affairs; he has a particular concern for thee; therefore
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be advised by him." It is a duty we owe to our parents, when they
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are gone, to love their friends and consult with them. Solomon's
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son undid himself by forsaking the counsel of his father's friends.
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2. A good reason given why we should thus value true friendship and
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be choice of it. (1.) Because of the pleasure of it. There is a
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great deal of <i>sweetness</i> in conversing and consulting with a
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cordial friend. It is like <i>ointment and perfume,</i> which are
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very grateful to the smell, and exhilarate the spirits. It
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<i>rejoices the heart;</i> the burden of care is made lighter by
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unbosoming ourselves to our friend, and it is a great satisfaction
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to us to have his sentiments concerning our affairs. <i>The
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sweetness of</i> friendship lies not in hearty mirth, and hearty
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laughter, but in <i>hearty counsel,</i> faithful advice, sincerely
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given and without flattery, <i>by counsel of the soul</i> (so the
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word is), counsel which reaches the case, and comes to the heart,
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counsel about soul-concerns, <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p14.1" osisRef="Bible:Ps.66.16" parsed="|Ps|66|16|0|0" passage="Ps 66:16">Ps. lxvi.
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16</scripRef>. We should reckon that the most pleasant conversation
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which is about spiritual things, and promotes the prosperity of the
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soul. (2.) Because of the profit and advantage of it, especially in
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a <i>day of calamity.</i> We are here advised not to go into a
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<i>brother's house,</i> not to expect relief from a kinsman merely
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for kindred-sake, for the obligation of that commonly goes little
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further than calling cousin and fails when it comes to the trial of
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a real kindness, but rather to apply ourselves to our neighbours,
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who are at hand, and will be ready to help us at an exigence. It is
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wisdom to oblige them by being neighbourly, and we shall have the
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benefit of it in distress, by finding them so to us, <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p14.2" osisRef="Bible:Prov.18.24" parsed="|Prov|18|24|0|0" passage="Pr 18:24"><i>ch.</i> xviii. 24</scripRef>.</p>
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</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p14.3" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.11" parsed="|Prov|27|11|0|0" passage="Pr 27:11" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.11">
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<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p15">11 My son, be wise, and make my heart glad, that
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I may answer him that reproacheth me.</p>
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<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p16">Children are here exhorted to be wise and
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good, 1. That they may be a comfort to their parents and may
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<i>make their hearts glad,</i> even when <i>the evil days come,</i>
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and so recompense them for their care, <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p16.1" osisRef="Bible:Prov.23.15" parsed="|Prov|23|15|0|0" passage="Pr 23:15"><i>ch.</i> xxiii. 15</scripRef>. 2. That they may be a
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credit to them: "<i>That I may answer him that reproaches me</i>
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with having been over-strict and severe in bringing up my children,
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and having taken a wrong method with them in restraining them from
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the liberties which other young people take. <i>My son, be
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wise,</i> and then it will appear, in the effect, that I went the
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wisest way to work with my children." Those that have been blessed
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with a religious education should in every thing conduct themselves
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so as to be a credit to their education and to silence those who
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say, <i>A young saint, an old devil;</i> and to prove the contrary,
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<i>A young saint, an old angel.</i></p>
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</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p16.2" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.12" parsed="|Prov|27|12|0|0" passage="Pr 27:12" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.12">
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<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p17">12 A prudent <i>man</i> foreseeth the evil,
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<i>and</i> hideth himself; <i>but</i> the simple pass on,
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<i>and</i> are punished.</p>
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<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p18">This we had before, <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p18.1" osisRef="Bible:Prov.22.3" parsed="|Prov|22|3|0|0" passage="Pr 22:3"><i>ch.</i> xxii. 3</scripRef>. Note, 1. Evil may be
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foreseen. Where there is temptation, it is easy to foresee that if
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we thrust ourselves into it there will be sin, and as easy to
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foresee that if we venture upon the evil of sin there will follow
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the evil of punishment; and, commonly, God warns before he wounds,
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having <i>set watchmen over us,</i> <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p18.2" osisRef="Bible:Jer.6.17" parsed="|Jer|6|17|0|0" passage="Jer 6:17">Jer. vi. 17</scripRef>. 2. It will be well or ill with
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us according as we do or do not improve the foresight we have of
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evil before us: The <i>prudent man, foreseeing the evil,</i>
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forecasts accordingly, <i>and hides himself, but the simple</i> is
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either so dull that he does not foresee it or so wilful and
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slothful that he will take no care to avoid it, and so he <i>passes
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on</i> securely <i>and is punished.</i> We do well for ourselves
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when we provide for hereafter.</p>
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</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p18.3" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.13" parsed="|Prov|27|13|0|0" passage="Pr 27:13" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.13">
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<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p19">13 Take his garment that is surety for a
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stranger, and take a pledge of him for a strange woman.</p>
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<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p20">This also we had before, <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p20.1" osisRef="Bible:Prov.20.16" parsed="|Prov|20|16|0|0" passage="Pr 20:16"><i>ch.</i> xx. 16</scripRef>. 1. It shows who those are
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that are hastening to poverty, those that have so little
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consideration as to be bound for every body that will ask them and
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those that are given to women. Such as these will take up money as
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far as ever their credit will go, but they will certainly cheat
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their creditors at last, nay, they are cheating them all along. An
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honest man may be made a beggar, but he is not honest that makes
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himself one. 2. It advises us to be so discreet in ordering our
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affairs as not to lend money to those who are manifestly wasting
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their estates, unless they give very good security for it. Foolish
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lending is injustice to our families. He does not say, "Get another
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to be bound with him," for he that makes himself a common voucher
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will have those to be his security who are as insolvent as himself;
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therefore <i>take his garment.</i></p>
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</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p20.2" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.14" parsed="|Prov|27|14|0|0" passage="Pr 27:14" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.14">
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<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p21">14 He that blesseth his friend with a loud
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voice, rising early in the morning, it shall be counted a curse to
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him.</p>
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<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p22">Note, 1. It is a great folly to be
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extravagant in praising even the best of our friends and
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benefactors. It is our duty to give every one his due praise, to
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applaud those who excel in knowledge, virtue, and usefulness, and
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to acknowledge the kindnesses we have received with thankfulness;
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but to do this <i>with a loud voice, rising early in the
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morning,</i> to be always harping on this string, in all companies,
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even to our friend's face, or so as that he may be sure to hear it,
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to do it studiously, as we do that which we rise early to, to
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magnify the merits of our friend above measure and with hyperboles,
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is fulsome, and nauseous, and savours of hypocrisy and design.
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Praising men for what they have done is only to get more out of
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them; and every body concludes the parasite hopes to be well paid
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for his panegyric or epistle dedicatory. We must not give that
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praise to our friend which is due to God only, as some think is
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intimated in <i>rising early</i> to do it; for in the morning God
|
||
is to be praised. We must not <i>make too much haste to praise
|
||
men</i> (so some understand it), not cry up men too soon for their
|
||
abilities and performances, but let them first be proved; lest they
|
||
be lifted up with pride, and laid to sleep in idleness. 2. It is a
|
||
greater folly to be fond of being ourselves extravagantly praised.
|
||
A wise man rather counts it <i>a curse,</i> and a reflection upon
|
||
him, not only designed to pick his pocket, but which may really
|
||
turn to his prejudice. Modest praises (as a great man observes)
|
||
invite such as are present to add to the commendation, but immodest
|
||
immoderate praises tempt them to detract rather, and to censure one
|
||
that they hear over-commended. And, besides, over-praising a man
|
||
makes him the object of envy; every man puts in for a share of
|
||
reputation, and therefore reckons himself injured if another
|
||
monopolize it or have more given him than his share. And the
|
||
greatest danger of all is that it is a temptation to pride; men are
|
||
apt to think of themselves above what is meet when others speak of
|
||
them above what is meet. See how careful blessed Paul was not to be
|
||
over-valued, <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p22.1" osisRef="Bible:2Cor.12.6" parsed="|2Cor|12|6|0|0" passage="2Co 12:6">2 Cor. xii.
|
||
6</scripRef>.</p>
|
||
</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p22.2" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.15-Prov.27.16" parsed="|Prov|27|15|27|16" passage="Pr 27:15-16" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.15-Prov.27.16">
|
||
<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p23">15 A continual dropping in a very rainy day and
|
||
a contentious woman are alike. 16 Whosoever hideth her
|
||
hideth the wind, and the ointment of his right hand, <i>which</i>
|
||
bewrayeth <i>itself.</i></p>
|
||
<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p24">Here, as before, Solomon laments the case
|
||
of him that has a peevish passionate wife, that is continually
|
||
chiding, and making herself and all about her uneasy. 1. It is a
|
||
grievance that there is no avoiding, for it is like <i>a continual
|
||
dropping in a very rainy day.</i> The contentions of a neighbour
|
||
may be like a sharp shower, troublesome for the time, yet, while it
|
||
lasts, one may take shelter; but <i>the contentions of a wife</i>
|
||
are like a constant soaking rain, for which there is no remedy but
|
||
patience See <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p24.1" osisRef="Bible:Prov.19.13" parsed="|Prov|19|13|0|0" passage="Pr 19:13"><i>ch.</i> xix.
|
||
13</scripRef>. 2. It is a grievance that there is no concealing. A
|
||
wise man would hide it if he could, for the sake both of his own
|
||
and his wife's reputation, but he cannot, any more than he can
|
||
conceal the noise of the wind when it blows or the smell of a
|
||
strong perfume. Those that are froward and brawling will proclaim
|
||
their own shame, even when their friends, in kindness to them,
|
||
would cover it.</p>
|
||
</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p24.2" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.17" parsed="|Prov|27|17|0|0" passage="Pr 27:17" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.17">
|
||
<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p25">17 Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the
|
||
countenance of his friend.</p>
|
||
<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p26">This intimates both the pleasure and the
|
||
advantage of conversation. One man is nobody; nor will poring upon
|
||
a book in a corner accomplish a man as the reading and studying of
|
||
men will. Wise and profitable discourse sharpens men's wits; and
|
||
those that have ever so much knowledge may by conference have
|
||
something added to them. It sharpens men's looks, and, by cheering
|
||
the spirits, puts a briskness and liveliness into the countenance,
|
||
and gives a man such an air as shows he is pleased himself and
|
||
makes him pleasing to those about him. Good men's graces are
|
||
sharpened by converse with those that are good, and bad men's lusts
|
||
and passions are sharpened by converse with those that are bad, as
|
||
iron is sharpened by its like, especially by the file. Men are
|
||
filed, made smooth, and bright, and fit for business (who were
|
||
rough, and dull, and inactive), by conversation. This is designed,
|
||
1. To recommend to us this expedient for sharpening ourselves, but
|
||
with a caution to take heed whom we choose to converse with,
|
||
because the influence upon us is so great either for the better or
|
||
for the worse. 2. To direct us what we must have in our eye in
|
||
conversation, namely to improve both others and ourselves, not to
|
||
pass away time or banter one another, but to <i>provoke one another
|
||
to love and to good works</i> and so to make one another wiser and
|
||
better.</p>
|
||
</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p26.1" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.18" parsed="|Prov|27|18|0|0" passage="Pr 27:18" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.18">
|
||
<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p27">18 Whoso keepeth the fig tree shall eat the
|
||
fruit thereof: so he that waiteth on his master shall be
|
||
honoured.</p>
|
||
<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p28">This is designed to encourage diligence,
|
||
faithfulness, and constancy, even in mean employments. Though the
|
||
calling be laborious and despicable, yet those who keep to it will
|
||
find there is something to be got by it. 1. Let not a poor
|
||
gardener, who <i>keeps the fig-tree,</i> be discouraged; though it
|
||
require constant care and attendance to nurse up fig-trees, and,
|
||
when they have grown to maturity, to keep them in good order, and
|
||
gather the figs in their season, yet he shall be paid for his
|
||
pains: He <i>shall eat the fruit</i> of it, <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p28.1" osisRef="Bible:1Cor.9.7" parsed="|1Cor|9|7|0|0" passage="1Co 9:7">1 Cor. ix. 7</scripRef>. 2. Nay, let not a poor servant
|
||
think himself incapable of thriving and being preferred; for if he
|
||
be diligent in <i>waiting on his master,</i> observant of him and
|
||
obedient to him, if <i>he keep his master</i> (so the word is), if
|
||
he do all he can for the securing of his person and reputation and
|
||
take care that his estate be not wasted or damaged, such a one
|
||
<i>shall be honoured,</i> shall not only get a good word, but be
|
||
preferred and rewarded. God is a Master who has engaged to put an
|
||
honour on those that serve him faithfully, <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p28.2" osisRef="Bible:John.12.26" parsed="|John|12|26|0|0" passage="Joh 12:26">John xii. 26</scripRef>.</p>
|
||
</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p28.3" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.19" parsed="|Prov|27|19|0|0" passage="Pr 27:19" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.19">
|
||
<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p29">19 As in water face <i>answereth</i> to face, so
|
||
the heart of man to man.</p>
|
||
<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p30">This shows us that there is a way, 1. Of
|
||
knowing ourselves. As the water is a looking-glass in which we may
|
||
see our faces by reflection, so there are mirrors by which the
|
||
<i>heart of a man</i> is discovered to <i>a man,</i> that is, to
|
||
himself. Let a man examine his own conscience, his thoughts,
|
||
affections, and intentions. Let him behold his <i>natural face in
|
||
the glass</i> of the divine law (<scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p30.1" osisRef="Bible:Jas.1.23" parsed="|Jas|1|23|0|0" passage="Jam 1:23">Jam.
|
||
i. 23</scripRef>), and he may discern what kind of man he is and
|
||
what is his true character, which it will be of great use to every
|
||
man rightly to know. 2. Of knowing one another by ourselves; for,
|
||
as there is a similitude between the face of a man and the
|
||
reflection of it in the water, so there is between one man's heart
|
||
and another's for God has fashioned men's hearts alike; and in many
|
||
cases we may judge of others by ourselves, which is one of the
|
||
foundations on which that rule is built of doing to others as we
|
||
would be done by, <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p30.2" osisRef="Bible:Exod.23.9" parsed="|Exod|23|9|0|0" passage="Ex 23:9">Exod. xxiii.
|
||
9</scripRef>. <i>Nihil est unum uni tam simile, tam par, quam omnes
|
||
inter nosmet ipsos sumus. Sui nemo ipse tam similis quam omnes sunt
|
||
omnium—No one thing is so like another as man is to man. No person
|
||
is so like himself as each person is to all besides. Cic. de Legib.
|
||
lib.</i> 1. One corrupt heart is like another, and so is one
|
||
sanctified heart, for the former bears the same image of the
|
||
earthy, the latter the same image of the heavenly.</p>
|
||
</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p30.3" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.20" parsed="|Prov|27|20|0|0" passage="Pr 27:20" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.20">
|
||
<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p31">20 Hell and destruction are never full; so the
|
||
eyes of man are never satisfied.</p>
|
||
<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p32">Two things are here said to be insatiable,
|
||
and they are two things near of kin—death and sin. 1. Death is
|
||
insatiable. The first death, the second death, both are so. The
|
||
grave is not clogged with the multitude of dead bodies that are
|
||
daily thrown into it, but is still an <i>open sepulchre,</i> and
|
||
cries, <i>Give, give.</i> Hell also has enlarged itself, and still
|
||
has room for the damned spirits that are committed to that prison.
|
||
<i>Tophet is deep and large,</i> <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p32.1" osisRef="Bible:Isa.30.33" parsed="|Isa|30|33|0|0" passage="Isa 30:33">Isa.
|
||
xxx. 33</scripRef>. 2. Sin is insatiable: <i>The eyes of man are
|
||
never satisfied,</i> nor the appetites of the carnal mind towards
|
||
profit or pleasure. The <i>eye is not satisfied with seeing,</i>
|
||
nor is he the <i>loves silver satisfied with silver.</i> Men labour
|
||
for that which surfeits, but satisfies not; nay, it is
|
||
dissatisfying; but satisfies not; nay, it is dissatisfying; such a
|
||
perpetual uneasiness have men justly been doomed to ever since our
|
||
first parents were not satisfied with all the trees of Eden, but
|
||
they must meddle with the forbidden tree. Those whose eyes are ever
|
||
toward the Lord in him are satisfied, and shall for ever be so.</p>
|
||
</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p32.2" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.21" parsed="|Prov|27|21|0|0" passage="Pr 27:21" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.21">
|
||
<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p33">21 <i>As</i> the fining pot for silver, and the
|
||
furnace for gold; so <i>is</i> a man to his praise.</p>
|
||
<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p34">This gives us a touchstone by which we may
|
||
try ourselves. Silver and gold are tried by putting them into the
|
||
furnace and fining-pot; so is man tried by praising him. Let him be
|
||
extolled and preferred, and then he will show himself what he is.
|
||
1. If a man be made, by the applause that is given him, proud,
|
||
conceited, and scornful,—if he take the glory to himself which he
|
||
should transmit to God, as Herod did,—if, the more he is praised,
|
||
the more careless he is of what he says and does,—if he <i>lie in
|
||
bed till noon</i> because <i>his name is up,</i> thereby it will
|
||
appear that he is a vain foolish man, and a man who, though he be
|
||
praised, has nothing in him truly praise-worthy. 2. If, on the
|
||
contrary, a man is made by his praise more thankful to God, more
|
||
respectful to his friends, more watchful against every thing that
|
||
may blemish his reputation, more diligent to improve himself, and
|
||
do good to others, that he may answer the expectations of his
|
||
friends from him, by this it will appear that he is a wise and good
|
||
man. He has a good temper of mind who knows how to pass by evil
|
||
report and good report, and is still the same, <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p34.1" osisRef="Bible:2Cor.6.8" parsed="|2Cor|6|8|0|0" passage="2Co 6:8">2 Cor. vi. 8</scripRef>.</p>
|
||
</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p34.2" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.22" parsed="|Prov|27|22|0|0" passage="Pr 27:22" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.22">
|
||
<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p35">22 Though thou shouldest bray a fool in a mortar
|
||
among wheat with a pestle, <i>yet</i> will not his foolishness
|
||
depart from him.</p>
|
||
<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p36">Solomon had said (<scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p36.1" osisRef="Bible:Prov.22.15" parsed="|Prov|22|15|0|0" passage="Pr 22:15"><i>ch.</i> xxii. 15</scripRef>), <i>The foolishness</i>
|
||
which <i>is bound in the heart of a child may be driven out by the
|
||
rod of correction,</i> for then the mind is to be moulded, the
|
||
vicious habits not having taken root; but here he shows that, if it
|
||
be not done then, it will be next to impossible to do it
|
||
afterwards; if the disease be inveterate, there is a danger of its
|
||
being incurable. <i>Can the Ethiopian change his skin?</i> Observe,
|
||
1. Some are so bad that rough and severe methods must be used with
|
||
them, after gentle means have been tried in vain; they must be
|
||
<i>brayed in a mortar.</i> God will take this way with them by his
|
||
judgments; the magistrates must take this way with them by the
|
||
rigour of the law. Force must be used with those that will not be
|
||
ruled by reason, and love, and their own interest. 2. Some are so
|
||
incorrigibly bad that even those rough and severe methods do not
|
||
answer the end, their <i>foolishness will not depart from them,</i>
|
||
so fully are their <i>hearts set in them to do evil;</i> they are
|
||
often under the rod and yet not humbled, in the furnace and yet not
|
||
refined, but, like Ahaz, trespass yet more (<scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p36.2" osisRef="Bible:2Chr.28.22" parsed="|2Chr|28|22|0|0" passage="2Ch 28:22">2 Chron. xxviii. 22</scripRef>); and what remains then
|
||
but that they should be rejected as reprobate silver?</p>
|
||
<h4 id="Prov.xxviii-p36.3">The Reward of Prudence.</h4>
|
||
</div><scripCom id="Prov.xxviii-p36.4" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.23-Prov.27.27" parsed="|Prov|27|23|27|27" passage="Pr 27:23-27" type="Commentary"/><div class="Commentary" id="Bible:Prov.27.23-Prov.27.27">
|
||
<p class="passage" id="Prov.xxviii-p37">23 Be thou diligent to know the state of thy
|
||
flocks, <i>and</i> look well to thy herds. 24 For riches
|
||
<i>are</i> not for ever: and doth the crown <i>endure</i> to every
|
||
generation? 25 The hay appeareth, and the tender grass
|
||
sheweth itself, and herbs of the mountains are gathered. 26
|
||
The lambs <i>are</i> for thy clothing, and the goats <i>are</i> the
|
||
price of the field. 27 And <i>thou shalt have</i> goats'
|
||
milk enough for thy food, for the food of thy household, and
|
||
<i>for</i> the maintenance for thy maidens.</p>
|
||
<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p38">Here is, I. A command given us to be
|
||
diligent in our callings. It is directed to husbandmen and
|
||
shepherds, and those that deal in cattle, but it is to be extended
|
||
to all other lawful callings; whatever our business is, within
|
||
doors or without, we must apply our minds to it. This command
|
||
intimates, 1. That we ought to have some business to do in this
|
||
world and not to live in idleness. 2. We ought rightly and fully to
|
||
understand our business, and know what we have to do, and not
|
||
meddle with that which we do not understand. 3. We ought to have an
|
||
eye to it ourselves, and not turn over all the care of it to
|
||
others. We should, with our own eyes, inspect the <i>state of our
|
||
flocks,</i> it is the master's eye that makes them fat. 4. We must
|
||
be discreet and considerate in the management of our business,
|
||
<i>know the state</i> of things, and <i>look well</i> to them, that
|
||
nothing may be lost, no opportunity let slip, but every thing done
|
||
in proper time and order, and so as to turn to the best advantage.
|
||
5. We must be <i>diligent</i> and take pains; not only sit down and
|
||
contrive, but be up and doing: "Set thy heart to thy herds, as one
|
||
in care; lay thy hands, lay thy bones, to thy business."</p>
|
||
<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p39">II. The reasons to enforce this command.
|
||
Consider,</p>
|
||
<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p40">1. The uncertainty of worldly wealth
|
||
(<scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p40.1" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.24" parsed="|Prov|27|24|0|0" passage="Pr 27:24"><i>v.</i> 24</scripRef>): <i>Riches
|
||
are not for ever.</i> (1.) Other riches are not so durable as these
|
||
are: "<i>Look well to thy flocks and herds,</i> thy estate in the
|
||
country and the stock upon that, for these are staple commodities,
|
||
which, in a succession, will be for ever, whereas riches in trade
|
||
and merchandise will not be so; the <i>crown</i> itself may perhaps
|
||
not be so sure to thy family as thy flocks and herds." (2.) Even
|
||
these riches will go to decay if they be not well looked after. If
|
||
a man had <i>an abbey</i> (as we say), and were slothful and
|
||
wasteful, he might make an end of it. Even the crown and the
|
||
revenues of it, if care be not taken, will suffer damage, nor will
|
||
it <i>continue to every generation</i> without very good
|
||
management. Though David had the crown entailed on his family, yet
|
||
he <i>looked well to his flocks,</i> <scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p40.2" osisRef="Bible:1Chr.27.29 Bible:1Chr.27.31" parsed="|1Chr|27|29|0|0;|1Chr|27|31|0|0" passage="1Ch 27:29,31">1 Chron. xxvii. 29, 31</scripRef>.</p>
|
||
<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p41">2. The bounty and liberality of nature, or
|
||
rather of the God of nature, and his providence (<scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p41.1" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.25" parsed="|Prov|27|25|0|0" passage="Pr 27:25"><i>v.</i> 25</scripRef>): <i>The hay appears.</i> In
|
||
taking care of the <i>flocks and herds,</i> (1.) "There needs no
|
||
great labour, no ploughing or sowing; the food for them is the
|
||
spontaneous product of the ground; thou hast nothing to do but to
|
||
turn them into it in the summer, <i>when the grass shows
|
||
itself,</i> and to <i>gather the herbs of the mountains</i> for
|
||
them against winter. God has done his part; thou art ungrateful to
|
||
him, and unjustly refusest to serve his providence, if thou dost
|
||
not do thine." (2.) "There is an opportunity to be observed and
|
||
improved, a time when <i>the hay appears;</i> but, if thou let slip
|
||
that time, thy flocks and herds will fare the worse for it. As for
|
||
ourselves, so for our cattle, we ought, with the ant, to provide
|
||
meat in summer."</p>
|
||
<p class="indent" id="Prov.xxviii-p42">3. The profit of good husbandry in a
|
||
family: "Keep thy sheep, and thy sheep will help to keep thee; thou
|
||
shalt have food for thy children and servants, <i>goats' milk
|
||
enough</i> (<scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p42.1" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.27" parsed="|Prov|27|27|0|0" passage="Pr 27:27"><i>v.</i> 27</scripRef>);
|
||
and <i>enough is as good as a feast.</i> Thou shalt have raiment
|
||
likewise: the <i>lambs' wool shall be for thy clothing.</i> Thou
|
||
shalt have money to pay thy rent; the goats thou shalt have to sell
|
||
shall be <i>the price of thy field;</i>" nay, as some understand
|
||
it, "<i>Thou shalt become a purchaser,</i> and buy land to leave to
|
||
thy children," (<scripRef id="Prov.xxviii-p42.2" osisRef="Bible:Prov.27.26" parsed="|Prov|27|26|0|0" passage="Pr 27:26"><i>v.</i>
|
||
26</scripRef>). Note, (1.) If we have food and raiment, and
|
||
wherewithal to give every body his own, we have enough, and ought
|
||
to be not only content, but thankful. (2.) Masters of families must
|
||
provide not only for themselves, but for their families, and see
|
||
that their servants have a fitting maintenance. (3.) Plain food and
|
||
plain clothing, if they be but competent, are all we should aim at.
|
||
"Reckon thyself well done to if thou be clothed with home-spun
|
||
cloth with the fleece of thy own lambs, and fed with goats' milk;
|
||
let that serve for thy food which serves for the <i>food of thy
|
||
household and the maintenance of thy maidens.</i> Be not desirous
|
||
of dainties, <i>far-fetched and dear-bought.</i>" (4.) This should
|
||
encourage us to be careful and industrious about our business, that
|
||
that will bring in a sufficient maintenance for our families; we
|
||
shall <i>eat the labour of our hands.</i></p>
|
||
</div></div2> |