The apostle having, in the former chapter, directed our conduct one towards another in civil things, and prescribed the sacred laws of justice, peaceableness, and order, to be observed by us as members of the commonwealth, comes in this and part of the following chapter in like manner to direct our demeanour one towards another in sacred things, which pertain more immediately to conscience and religion, and which we observe as members of the church. Particularly, he gives rules how to manage our different apprehensions about indifferent things, in the management of which, it seems, there was something amiss among the Roman Christians, to whom he wrote, which he here labours to redress. But the rules are general, and of standing use in the church, for the preservation of that Christian love which he had so earnestly pressed in the foregoing chapter as the fulfilling of the law. It is certain that nothing is more threatening, nor more often fatal, to Christian societies, than the contentions and divisions of their members. By these wounds the life and soul of religion expire. Now in this chapter we are furnished with the sovereign balm of Gilead; the blessed apostle prescribes like a wise physician. "Why then is not the hurt of the daughter of my people recovered," but because his directions are not followed? This chapter, rightly understood, made use of, and lived up to, would set things to rights, and heal us all.
1 Him that is weak in the faith receive ye, but not to doubtful disputations. 2 For one believeth that he may eat all things: another, who is weak, eateth herbs. 3 Let not him that eateth despise him that eateth not; and let not him which eateth not judge him that eateth: for God hath received him. 4 Who art thou that judgest another man's servant? to his own master he standeth or falleth. Yea, he shall be holden up: for God is able to make him stand. 5 One man esteemeth one day above another: another esteemeth every day alike. Let every man be fully persuaded in his own mind. 6 He that regardeth the day, regardeth it unto the Lord; and he that regardeth not the day, to the Lord he doth not regard it. He that eateth, eateth to the Lord, for he giveth God thanks; and he that eateth not, to the Lord he eateth not, and giveth God thanks. 7 For none of us liveth to himself, and no man dieth to himself. 8 For whether we live, we live unto the Lord; and whether we die, we die unto the Lord: whether we live therefore, or die, we are the Lord's. 9 For to this end Christ both died, and rose, and revived, that he might be Lord both of the dead and living. 10 But why dost thou judge thy brother? or why dost thou set at nought thy brother? for we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ. 11 For it is written, As I live, saith the Lord, every knee shall bow to me, and every tongue shall confess to God. 12 So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God. 13 Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother's way. 14 I know, and am persuaded by the Lord Jesus, that there is nothing unclean of itself: but to him that esteemeth any thing to be unclean, to him it is unclean. 15 But if thy brother be grieved with thy meat, now walkest thou not charitably. Destroy not him with thy meat, for whom Christ died. 16 Let not then your good be evil spoken of: 17 For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost. 18 For he that in these things serveth Christ is acceptable to God, and approved of men. 19 Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another. 20 For meat destroy not the work of God. All things indeed are pure; but it is evil for that man who eateth with offence. 21 It is good neither to eat flesh, nor to drink wine, nor any thing whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak. 22 Hast thou faith? have it to thyself before God. Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth. 23 And he that doubteth is damned if he eat, because he eateth not of faith: for whatsoever is not of faith is sin.
We have in this chapter,
I. An account of the unhappy contention which had broken out in the Christian church. Our Master had foretold that offences would come; and, it seems, so they did, for want of that wisdom and love which would have prevented discord, and kept up union among them.
1. There was a difference among them about
the distinction of meats and days; these are the two things
specified. There might be other similar occasions of difference,
while these made the most noise, and were most taken notice of. The
case was this: The members of the Christian church at Rome were
some of them originally Gentiles, and others of them Jews. We find
Jews at Rome believing,
2. It was not so much the difference itself that did the mischief as the mismanagement of the difference, making it a bone of contention. (1.) Those who were strong, and knew their Christian liberty, and made use of it, despised the weak, who did not. Whereas they should have pitied them, and helped them, and afforded them meek and friendly instruction, they trampled upon them as silly, and humoursome, and superstitious, for scrupling those things which they knew to be lawful: so apt are those who have knowledge to be puffed up with it, and to look disdainfully and scornfully upon their brethren. (2.) Those who were weak, and durst not use their Christian liberty, judged and censured the strong, who did, as if they were loose Christians, carnal professors, that cared not what they did, but walked at all adventures, and stuck at nothing. They judged them as breakers of the law, contemners of God's ordinance, and the like. Such censures as these discovered a great deal of rashness and uncharitableness, and would doubtless tend much to the alienating of affection. Well, this was the disease, and we see it remaining in the church to this day; the like differences, in like manner mismanaged, are still the disturbers of the church's peace. But,
II. We have proper directions and suggestions laid down for allaying this contention, and preventing the ill consequences of it. The apostle, as a wise physician, prescribes proper remedies for the disease, which are made up of rules and reasons. Such gentle methods does he take, with such cords of a man does he draw them together; not by excommunicating, suspending, and silencing either side, but by persuading them both to a mutual forbearance: and as a faithful daysman he lays his hand upon them both, reasoning the case with the strong that they should not be so scornful, and with the weak that they should not be so censorious. If the contending parties will but submit to this fair arbitration, each abate of his rigour, and sacrifice their differences to their graces, all will be well quickly. Let us observe the rules he gives, some to the strong and some to the weak, and some to both, for they are interwoven; and reduce the reasons to their proper rules.
1. Those who are weak must be received,
but not to doubtful disputations,
2. Those who are strong must by no means
despise the weak; nor those who are weak judge the strong,
(1.) Because God hath received them; and we
reflect upon him if we reject those whom he hath received. God
never cast off any one that had true grace, though he was but weak
in it; never broke the bruised reed. Strong believers and weak
believers, those that eat and those that eat not, if they be true
believers, are accepted of God. It will be good for us to put this
question to ourselves, when we are tempted to behave scornfully
towards our brethren, to disdain and censure them: "Hast not God
owned them; and, if he has, dare I disown them?" "Nay, God doth not
only receive him, but hold him up,
(2.) Because they are servants to their own
master (
(3.) Because both the one and the other, if
they be true believers, and are right in the main, have an eye to
God, and do approve themselves to God in what they do,
[1.] Our end and aim: not self, but the
Lord. As the particular end specifies the action, so the general
scope and tendency specify the state. If we would know what way we
walk in, we must enquire what end we walk towards. First,
Not to self. We have learned to deny ourselves; this was our first
lesson: None of us liveth to himself. This is a thing in
which all the people of God are one, however they differ in other
things; though some are weak and others are strong, yet both agree
in this, not to live to themselves. Not one that hath given up his
name to Christ is allowedly a self-seeker; it is contrary to the
foundation of true Christianity. We neither live to ourselves
nor die to ourselves. We are not our own masters, nor our own
proprietors—we are not at our own disposal. The business of our
lives is not to please ourselves, but to please God. The business
of our deaths, to which we are every day exposed and delivered, is
not to make ourselves talked of; we run not such hazards out of
vain-glory, while we are dying daily. When we come to die actually,
neither is that to ourselves; it is not barely that we would be
unclothed, and eased of the burden of the flesh, but it is to the
Lord, that we may depart and be with Christ, may be present with
the Lord. Secondly, But to the Lord (
[2.] The ground of this,
(4.) Because both the one and the other
must shortly give an account,
[1.] All his friends do it freely, are made
willing in the day of his power. Grace is the soul's cheerful,
entire, and avowed subjection to Jesus Christ. First, Bowing
to him—the understanding bowed to his truths, the will to his
laws, the whole man to his authority; and this expressed by the
bowing of the knee, the posture of adoration and prayer. It is
proclaimed before our Joseph, Bow the knee,
[2.] All his foes shall be constrained to
do it, whether they will or no. When he shall come in the clouds,
and every eye shall see him, then, and not till then, will all
those promises which speak of his victories over his enemies and
their subjection to him have their full and complete
accomplishment; then his foes shall be his footstool, and all his
enemies shall lick the dust. Hence he concludes (
(5.) Because the stress of Christianity is
not to be laid upon these things, nor are they at all essential to
religion, either on the one side or on the other. This is his
reason (
[1.] The nature of true Christianity, what
it is: it is here called, The kingdom of God; it is a
religion intended to rule us, a kingdom: it stands in a true and
hearty subjection to God's power and dominion. The gospel
dispensation is in a special manner called the kingdom of
God, in distinction from the legal dispensation,
[2.] The advantages of it. He that duly observeth these things, First, Is acceptable to God. God is well pleased with such a one, though he be not in every thing just of our length. He has the love and favour of God; his person, his performances, are accepted of God, and we need no more to make us happy. If God now accepts thy works, thou mayest eat thy bread with joy. Those are most pleasing to God that are best pleased with him; and they are those that abound most in peace and joy in the Holy Ghost. Secondly, He is approved of men—of all wise and good men, and the opinion of others is not to be regarded. The persons and things which are acceptable to God should be approved of us. Should not we be pleased with that which God is pleased with? What is it to be sanctified, but to be of God's mind? Observe, The approbation of men is not to be slighted; for we must provide things honest in the sight of all men, and study those things that are lovely and of good report: but the acceptance of God is to be desired and aimed at in the first place, because, sooner or later, God will bring all the world to be of his mind.
3. Another rule here given is this, that in
these doubtful things every one not only may, but must, walk
according to the light that God hath given him. This is laid down
(1.) Of a mistaken conscience,
[1.] His own clearness in this matter.
"I know and am persuaded—I am fully persuaded, I am
acquainted with my Christian liberty, and am satisfied in it,
without any doubt or scruple, that there is nothing unclean of
itself, that is, no kind of meat that lies under any ceremonial
uncleanness, nor is forbidden to be eaten, if it be food proper for
human bodies." Several kinds of meat were forbidden to the Jews,
that in that, as in other things, they might be a peculiar and
separate people,
[2.] But here is a caution he gives to
those who had not that clearness in this matter which he had: To
him that esteemeth any thing to be unclean, though it be his
error, yet to him it is unclean. This particular case, thus
determined, gives a general rule, That he who does a thing which he
verily believes to be unlawful, however the thing be in itself, to
him it is a sin. This arises from that unchangeable law of our
creation, which is, that our wills, in all their choices, motions,
and directions, should follow the dictates of our understandings.
This is the order of nature, which order is broken if the
understanding (though misguided) tell us that such a thing is a
sin, and yet we will do it. This is a will to do evil; for,
if it appears to us to be sin, there is the same pravity and
corruption of the will in the doing of it as if really it were a
sin; and therefore we ought not to do it. Not that it is in the
power of any man's conscience to alter the nature of the action in
itself, but only as to himself. It must be understood likewise with
this proviso, though men's judgments and opinions may make that
which is good in itself to become evil to them, yet they cannot
make that which is evil in itself to become good, either in itself
or to them. If a man were verily persuaded (it is Dr. Sanderson's
instance, sermon on
(2.) Nor must we act against the dictates
of a doubting conscience. In those indifferent things which we are
sure it is no sin not to do, and yet are not clear that it is
lawful to do them, we must not do them while we continue under
those doubts; for he that doubteth is damned if he eat
(
4. Another rule here prescribed is to those
who are clear in these matters, and know their Christian liberty,
yet to take heed of using it so as to give offence to a weak
brother. This is laid down
(1.) Of grief to our brother, "One that is
weak, and thinks it unlawful to eat such and such meats, will be
greatly troubled to see thee eat them, out of a concern for the
honour of the law which he thinks forbids them, and for the good of
thy soul which he thinks is wronged by them, especially when thou
dost it wilfully and with a seeming presumption, and not with that
tenderness and that care to give satisfaction to thy weak brother
which would become thee." Christians should take heed of grieving
one another, and of saddening the hearts of Christ's little ones.
See
(2.) Of guilt to our brother. The former is
a stumbling-block, that gives our brother a great shake, and
is a hindrance and discouragement to him; but this is an
occasion to fall. "If thy weak brother, purely by thy
example and influence, without any satisfaction received concerning
his Christian liberty, be drawn to act against his conscience and
to walk contrary to the light he has, and so to contract guilt upon
his soul, though the thing were lawful to thee, yet not being so to
him (he having not yet thereto attained), thou art to be
blamed for giving the occasion." See this case explained,
[1.] Consider the royal law of Christian
love and charity, which is hereby broken (
[2.] Consider the design of Christ's death:
Destroy not him with thy meat for whom Christ died,
[3.] Consider the work of God (
[4.] Consider the evil of giving offence,
and what an abuse it is of our Christian liberty. He grants that
all things indeed are pure. We may lawfully eat flesh, even
those meats which were prohibited by the ceremonial law; but, if we
abuse this liberty, it turns into sin to us: It is evil to him
that eats with offence. Lawful things may be done
unlawfully.—Eats with offence, either carelessly or
designedly giving offence to his brethren. It is observable that
the apostle directs his reproof most against those who gave the
offence; not as if those were not to be blamed who causelessly and
weakly took the offence from their ignorance of Christian liberty,
and the want of that charity which is not easily provoked and which
thinketh no evil (he several times tacitly reflects upon them), but
he directs his speech to the strong, because they were better able
to bear the reproof, and to begin the reformation. For the further
pressing of this rule, we may here observe two directions which
have relation to it:—First, Let not then your good be evil
spoken of (