We have here, I. Jacob parting with his parents,
to go to Padan-aram; the charge his father gave him (
1 And Isaac called Jacob, and blessed him, and charged him, and said unto him, Thou shalt not take a wife of the daughters of Canaan. 2 Arise, go to Padan-aram, to the house of Bethuel thy mother's father; and take thee a wife from thence of the daughters of Laban thy mother's brother. 3 And God Almighty bless thee, and make thee fruitful, and multiply thee, that thou mayest be a multitude of people; 4 And give thee the blessing of Abraham, to thee, and to thy seed with thee; that thou mayest inherit the land wherein thou art a stranger, which God gave unto Abraham. 5 And Isaac sent away Jacob: and he went to Padan-aram unto Laban, son of Bethuel the Syrian, the brother of Rebekah, Jacob's and Esau's mother.
Jacob had no sooner obtained the blessing
than immediately he was forced to flee from his country; and, as it
if were not enough that he was a stranger and sojourner there, he
must go to be more so, and no better than an exile, in another
country. Now Jacob fled into Syria,
I. With a solemn charge: He blessed him,
and charged him,
II. With a solemn blessing,
1. The promise of heirs: God make thee
fruitful, and multiply thee,
2. The promise of an inheritance for those
heirs: That thou mayest inherit the land of thy sojournings,
Jacob, having taken leave of his father,
was hastened away with all speed, lest his brother should find an
opportunity to do him a mischief, and away he went to Padan-aram,
6 When Esau saw that Isaac had blessed Jacob, and sent him away to Padan-aram, to take him a wife from thence; and that as he blessed him he gave him a charge, saying, Thou shalt not take a wife of the daughters of Canaan; 7 And that Jacob obeyed his father and his mother, and was gone to Padan-aram; 8 And Esau seeing that the daughters of Canaan pleased not Isaac his father; 9 Then went Esau unto Ishmael, and took unto the wives which he had Mahalath the daughter of Ishmael Abraham's son, the sister of Nebajoth, to be his wife.
This passage concerning Esau comes in in
the midst of Jacob's story, either, 1. To show the influence of a
good example. Esau, though the greater man, now begins to think
Jacob the better man, and disdains not to take him for his pattern
in this particular instance of marrying with a daughter of Abraham.
The elder children should give to the younger an example of
tractableness and obedience; it is bad if they do not: but it is
some alleviation if they take the example of it from them, as Esau
here did from Jacob. Or, 2. To show the folly of an after-wit. Esau
did well, but he did it when it was too late, He saw that the
daughters of Canaan pleased not his father, and he might have
seen that long ago if he had consulted his father's judgment as
much as he did his palate. And how did he now mend the matter? Why,
truly, so as to make bad worse. (1.) He married a daughter of
Ishmael, the son of the bond-woman, who was cast out, and was not
to inherit with Isaac and his seed, thus joining with a family
which God had rejected, and seeking to strengthen his own
pretensions by the aid of another pretender. (2.) He took a third
wife, while, for aught that appears, his other two were neither
dead nor divorced. (3.) He did it only to please his father, not to
please God. Now that Jacob was sent into a far country Esau would
be all in all at home, and he hoped so to humour his father as to
prevail with him to make a new will, and entail the promise upon
him, revoking the settlement lately made upon Jacob. And thus, [1.]
He was wise when it was too late, like Israel that would venture
when the decree had gone forth against them (
10 And Jacob went out from Beer-sheba, and went toward Haran. 11 And he lighted upon a certain place, and tarried there all night, because the sun was set; and he took of the stones of that place, and put them for his pillows, and lay down in that place to sleep. 12 And he dreamed, and behold a ladder set up on the earth, and the top of it reached to heaven: and behold the angels of God ascending and descending on it. 13 And, behold, the Lord stood above it, and said, I am the Lord God of Abraham thy father, and the God of Isaac: the land whereon thou liest, to thee will I give it, and to thy seed; 14 And thy seed shall be as the dust of the earth, and thou shalt spread abroad to the west, and to the east, and to the north, and to the south: and in thee and in thy seed shall all the families of the earth be blessed. 15 And, behold, I am with thee, and will keep thee in all places whither thou goest, and will bring thee again into this land; for I will not leave thee, until I have done that which I have spoken to thee of.
We have here Jacob upon his journey towards
Syria, in a very desolate condition, like one that was sent to seek
his fortune; but we find that, though he was alone, yet he was not
alone, for the Father was with him,
I. A hard lodging (
II. In his hard lodging he had a pleasant dream. Any Israelite indeed would be willing to take up with Jacob's pillow, provided he might but have Jacob's dream. Then, and there, he heard the words of God, and saw the visions of the Almighty. It was the best night's sleep he ever had in his life. Note, God's time to visit his people with his comforts is when they are most destitute of other comforts, and other comforters; when afflictions in the way of duty (as these were) do abound, then shall consolations so much the more abound. Now observe here,
1. The encouraging vision Jacob saw,
2. The encouraging words Jacob heard. God now brought him into the wilderness, and spoke comfortably to him, spoke from the head of the ladder; for all the glad tidings we receive from heaven come through Jesus Christ.
(1.) The former promises made to his father
were repeated and ratified to him,
(2.) Fresh promises were made him,
accommodated to his present condition,
16 And Jacob awaked out of his sleep, and he said, Surely the Lord is in this place; and I knew it not. 17 And he was afraid, and said, How dreadful is this place! this is none other but the house of God, and this is the gate of heaven. 18 And Jacob rose up early in the morning, and took the stone that he had put for his pillows, and set it up for a pillar, and poured oil upon the top of it. 19 And he called the name of that place Beth-el: but the name of that city was called Luz at the first. 20 And Jacob vowed a vow, saying, If God will be with me, and will keep me in this way that I go, and will give me bread to eat, and raiment to put on, 21 So that I come again to my father's house in peace; then shall the Lord be my God: 22 And this stone, which I have set for a pillar, shall be God's house: and of all that thou shalt give me I will surely give the tenth unto thee.
God manifested himself and his favour to
Jacob when he was asleep and purely passive; for the spirit, like
the wind, blows when and where he listeth, and God's grace, like
the dew, tarrieth not for the sons of men,
I. He expressed a great surprise at the
tokens he had of God's special presence with him in that place:
Surely the Lord is in this place and I knew it not,
II. It struck an awe upon him (
III. He took care to preserve the memorial
of it two ways: 1. He set up the stone for a pillar (
IV. He made a solemn vow upon this
occasion,