The apostle here salutes an honourable matron and
her children,
1 The elder unto the elect lady and her children, whom I love in the truth; and not I only, but also all they that have known the truth; 2 For the truth's sake, which dwelleth in us, and shall be with us for ever. 3 Grace be with you, mercy, and peace, from God the Father, and from the Lord Jesus Christ, the Son of the Father, in truth and love. 4 I rejoiced greatly that I found of thy children walking in truth, as we have received a commandment from the Father.
Ancient epistles began, as here, with salutation and good wishes: religion consecrates, as far as may be, old forms, and turns compliments into real expressions of life and love. Here we have, as usually,
I. The saluter, not expressed by name, but by a chosen character: The elder. The expression, and style, and love, intimate that the penman was the same with that of the foregoing epistle; he is now the elder, emphatically and eminently so; possibly the oldest apostle now living, the chief elder in the church of God. An elder in the ancient house of Israel was reverend, or to be reverenced, much more he who is so In the gospel Israel of God. An old disciple is honourable; and old apostle and leader of disciples is more so. He was now old in holy service and experience, had seen and tasted much of heaven, and was much nearer than when at first he believed.
II. The saluted—a noble Christian matron, and her children: To the elect lady and her children. A lady, a person of eminent quality for birth, education, and estate. It is well that the gospel ha got among such. It is a pity but lords and ladies should be acquainted with the Lord Christ and his religion. They owe more to him than others do; though usually not many noble are called. Here is a pattern for persons of quality of the same sex. The elect lady; not only a choice one, but one chosen of God. It is lovely and beautiful to see ladies, by holy walking, demonstrate their election of God. And her children; probably the lady was a widow; she and her children then are the principal part of the family, and so this may be styled an economical epistle. Families may well be written to and encouraged, and further directed in their domestic love, and order, and duties. We see that children may well be taken notice of in Christian letters, and they should know it too; it may avail to their encouragement and caution. Those who love and commend them will be apt to enquire after them. This lady and her children are further notified by the respect paid them, and that, 1. By the apostle himself: Whom I love in the truth, or in truth, whom I sincerely and heartily love. He who was the beloved disciple had learnt the art or exercise of love; and he especially loved those who loved him, that Lord who loved him. 2. By all her Christian acquaintance, all the religious who knew her: And not I only, but also all those that have known the truth. virtue and goodness in an elevated sphere shine brightly. Truth demands acknowledgment, and those who see the evidences of pure religion should confess and attest them; it is a good sign and great duty to love and value religion in others. The ground of this love and respect thus paid to this lady and her children was their regard to the truth: For the truth's sake (or true religion's sake) which dwelleth in us, and shall be with us for ever. Christian love is founded upon the appearance of vital religion. Likeness should beget affection. Those who love truth and piety in themselves should love it in others too, or love others upon the account of it. The apostle and the other Christians loved this lady, not so much for her honour as her holiness; not so much for her bounty as her serious Christianity. We should not be religious merely by fits and starts, in certain moods and moons; but religion should still dwell within us, in our minds and hearts, in our faith and love. It is to be hoped that where religion once truly dwells it will abide for ever. The Spirit of Christianity, we may suppose, will not be totally extinguished: Which shall be with us for ever.
III. The salutation, which is indeed an
apostolical benediction: Grace be with you, mercy, and peace,
from God the Father and from the Lord Jesus Christ, the Son of the
Father, in truth and love,
1. From whom these blessings are craved,
(1.) From God the Father, the God of all grace. He is the
fountain of blessedness, and of all the blessings that must bring
us thither. (2.) From the Lord Jesus Christ. He is also
author and communicator of these heavenly blessings, and he is
distinguished by this emphatic character—the Son of the
Father; such a Son as none else can be; such a Son as is the
brightness of the Father's glory, and the express image of his
person, who, with the Father, is also eternal life,
2. What the apostle craves from these divine persons. (1.) Grace—divine favour and good-will, the spring of all good things: it is grace indeed that any spiritual blessing should be conferred on sinful mortals. (2.) Mercy—free pardon and forgiveness; those who are already rich in grace have need of continual forgiveness. (3.) Peace—tranquility of spirit and serenity of conscience, in an assured reconciliation with God, together with all safe and sanctified outward prosperity. And these are desired in truth and love, either by sincere and ardent affection in the saluter (in faith and love he prays them from God the Father, and the Lord Jesus Christ), or as productive of continued truth and love in the saluted; these blessings will continually preserve true faith and love in the elect lady and her children; and may they do so!
IV. The congratulation upon the prospect of
the exemplary behaviour of other children of this excellent lady.
Happy parent, who was blessed with such a numerous religious
offspring! I rejoiced greatly that I found of thy children
walking in the truth, as we have received commandment from the
Father,
5 And now I beseech thee, lady, not as though I wrote a new commandment unto thee, but that which we had from the beginning, that we love one another. 6 And this is love, that we walk after his commandments. This is the commandment, That, as ye have heard from the beginning, ye should walk in it.
We come now more into the design and substance of the epistle; and here we have,
I. The apostle's request: Now, I beseech thee, lady. Considering what it is that he entreats, the way of address is very remarkable; it is not any particular boon or bounty to himself, but common duty and observance of divine command. Here he might command or charge; but harsher measures are worse than needless where milder will prevail; and the apostolical spirit is, of all other, the most tender and endearing. Whether out of deference to her ladyship, or apostolical meekness, or both, he condescends to beseech: And now I beseech thee, lady. He may be supposed speaking as another apostle does to a certain master to whom he writes: Wherefore, though I might be very bold in Christ (and according to the power with which Christ hath entrusted me) to enjoin thee that which is convenient, yet, for love's sake I rather beseech thee, being such a one as the aged, the elder. Love will avail where authority will not; and we may often see that the more authority is urged the more it is slighted. The apostolical minister will love and beseech his friends into their duty.
II. The thing requested of the lady and
her children—Christian sacred love: That we love one
another,
1. This love is recommended, (1.) From the
obligation thereto—the commandment. Divine command should
sway our mind and heart. (2.) From the antiquity of the obligation:
Not as though I wrote a new commandment unto thee, but that
which we had from the beginning,
2. Then this love is illustrated from the
fruitful nature of it: And this is love, that we walk after his
commandments,
7 For many deceivers are entered into the world, who confess not that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh. This is a deceiver and an antichrist. 8 Look to yourselves, that we lose not those things which we have wrought, but that we receive a full reward. 9 Whosoever transgresseth, and abideth not in the doctrine of Christ, hath not God. He that abideth in the doctrine of Christ, he hath both the Father and the Son.
In this principal part of the epistle we find,
I. The ill news communicated to the
lady-seducers are abroad: For many deceivers have entered into
the world. This report is introduced by a particle that
bespeaks a reason of the report. "You have need to maintain your
love, for there are destroyers of it in the world. Those who
subvert the faith destroy the love; the common faith is one ground
of the common love;" or, "You must secure your walk according to
the commands of God; this will secure you. Your stability is likely
to be tried, for many deceivers have entered into the
world." Sad and saddening news may be communicated to our
Christian friends; not that we should love to make them sorry, but
to fore-warn is the way to fore-arm them against their trials. Now
here is, 1. The description of the deceiver and his deceit—he
confesses not that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh
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II. The counsel given to this elect
household hereupon. Now care and caution are needful: Look to
yourselves,
III. The reason of the apostle's counsel,
and of their care and caution about themselves, which is twofold:—
1. The danger and evil of departure from gospel light and
revelation; it is in effect and reality a departure from God
himself: Whosoever transgresseth (transgresseth at this
dismal rate), and abideth not in the doctrine of Christ, hath
not God. It is the doctrine of Christ that is appointed to
guide us to God; it is that whereby God draws souls to salvation
and to himself. Those who revolt thence, in so doing revolt from
God. 2. The advantage and happiness of firm adherence to Christian
truth; it unites us to Christ (the object or subject-matter of that
truth), and thereby to the Father also; for they are one. He
that abideth (rooted and grounded) in the doctrine of
Christ, he hath both the Father and the Son. By the doctrine of
Christ we are enlightened in the knowledge of the Father and the
Son; by it we are sanctified for the Father and the Son; thereupon
we are enriched with holy love to the Father and the Son; and
thereby prepared for the endless enjoyment of the Father and the
Son. Now you are clean through the word which I have spoken to
you,
10 If there come any unto you, and bring not this doctrine, receive him not into your house, neither bid him God speed: 11 For he that biddeth him God speed is partaker of his evil deeds.
Here, I. Upon due warning given concerning seducers, the apostle gives direction concerning the treatment of such. They are not to be entertained as the ministers of Christ. The Lord Christ will distinguish them from such, and so would he have his disciples. The direction is negative. 1. "Support them not: If there come any unto you, and bring not this doctrine (concerning Christ as the Son of God, the Messiah and anointed of God for our redemption and salvation), receive him not into your house." Possibly this lady was like Gaius, of whom we read in the next epistle, a generous housekeeper, and hospitable entertainer of travelling ministers and Christians. These deceivers might possibly expect the same reception with others, or with the best who came there (as the blind are often bold enough), but the apostle allows it not: "Do not welcome them into your family." Doubtless such may be relieved in their pressing necessities, but not encouraged for ill service. Deniers of the faith are destroyers of souls; and it is supposed that even ladies themselves should have good understanding in the affairs of religion. 2. "Bless not their enterprises: Neither bid him God speed. Attend not their service with your prayers and good wishes." Bad work should not be consecrated or recommended to the divine benediction. God will be no patron of falsehood, seduction, and sin. We ought to bid God speed to evangelical ministration; but the propagation of fatal error, if we cannot prevent, we must not dare to countenance. Then,
II. Here is the reason of such direction, forbidding the support and patronage of the deceiver: For he that biddeth him God speed is partaker of his evil deeds. Favour and affection partake of the sin. We may be sharers in the iniquities of others. How judicious and how cautious should the Christian be! There are many ways of sharing the guilt of other people's transgressions; it may be done by culpable silence, indolence, unconcernedness, private contribution, public countenance and assistance, inward approbation, open apology and defence. The Lord pardon our guilt of other persons' sins!
12 Having many things to write unto you, I would not write with paper and ink: but I trust to come unto you, and speak face to face, that our joy may be full. 13 The children of thy elect sister greet thee. Amen.
The apostle concludes this letter, 1. With
an adjournment of many things to personal conference: Having
many things to write unto you I would not write with paper and ink;
but I trust to come unto you, and speak face to face, that our joy
may be full. Here it is supposed that some things are better
spoken than written. The use of pen and ink may be a mercy and a
pleasure; but a personal interview may be more so. The apostle was
not yet too old for travel, nor consequently for travelling
service. The communion of saints should be by all methods
maintained; and their communion should tend to their mutual joy.
Excellent ministers may have their joy advanced by their Christian
friends. That I may be comforted together with you by the mutual
faith both of you and me,