Solomon had given many proofs and instances of the
vanity of this world and the things of it; now, in this chapter, I.
He recommends to us some good means proper to be used for the
redress of these grievances and the arming of ourselves against the
mischief we are in danger of from them, that we may make the best
of the bad, as 1. Care of our reputation,
1 A good name is better than precious ointment; and the day of death than the day of one's birth. 2 It is better to go to the house of mourning, than to go to the house of feasting: for that is the end of all men; and the living will lay it to his heart. 3 Sorrow is better than laughter: for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better. 4 The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning; but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth. 5 It is better to hear the rebuke of the wise, than for a man to hear the song of fools. 6 For as the crackling of thorns under a pot, so is the laughter of the fool: this also is vanity.
In these verses Solomon lays down some great truths which seem paradoxes to the unthinking part, that is, the far greatest part, of mankind.
I. That the honour of virtue is really more
valuable and desirable than all the wealth and pleasure in this
world (
II. That, all things considered, our going out of the world is a great kindness to us than our coming into the world was: The day of death is preferable to the birth-day; though, as to others, there was joy when a child was born into the world, and where there is death there is lamentation, yet, as to ourselves, if we have lived so as to merit a good name, the day of our death, which will put a period to our cares, and toils, and sorrows, and remove us to rest, and joy, and eternal satisfaction, is better than the day of our birth, which ushered us into a world of so much sin and trouble, vanity and vexation. We were born to uncertainty, but a good man does not die at uncertainty. The day of our birth clogged our souls with the burden of the flesh, but the day of our death will set them at liberty from that burden.
III. That it will do us more good to go to
a funeral than to go to a festival (
1. The uses to be gathered from the house of mourning are, (1.) By way of information: That is the end of all men. It is the end of man as to this world, a final period to his state here; he shall return no more to his house. It is the end of all men; all have sinned and therefore death passes upon all. We must thus be left by our friends, as the mourners are, and thus leave, as the dead do. What is the lot of others will be ours; the cup is going round, and it will come to our turn to pledge it shortly. (2.) By way of admonition: The living will lay it to his heart. Will they? It were well if they would. Those that are spiritually alive will lay it to heart, and, as for all the survivors, one would think they should; it is their own fault if they do not, for nothing is more easy and natural than by the death of others to be put in mind of our own. Some perhaps will lay that to heart, and consider their latter end, who would not lay a good sermon to heart.
2. For the further proof of this (
IV. That gravity and seriousness better
become us, and are better for us, than mirth and jollity,
V. That it is much better for us to have
our corruptions mortified by the rebuke of the wise than to
have them gratified by the song of fools,
7 Surely oppression maketh a wise man mad; and a gift destroyeth the heart. 8 Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof: and the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit. 9 Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry: for anger resteth in the bosom of fools. 10 Say not thou, What is the cause that the former days were better than these? for thou dost not enquire wisely concerning this.
Solomon had often complained before of the oppressions which he saw under the sun, which gave occasion for many melancholy speculations and were a great discouragement to virtue and piety. Now here,
I. He grants the temptation to be strong
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II. He argues against it. Let us not fret
at the power and success of oppressors, nor be envious at them,
for, 1. The character of oppressors is very bad, so some understand
III. He arms us against it with some necessary directions. If we would not be driven mad by oppression, but preserve the possession of our own souls,
1. We must be clothed with humility; for the proud in spirit are those that cannot bear to be trampled upon, but grow outrageous, and fret themselves, when they are hardly bestead. That will break a proud man's heart, which will not break a humble man's sleep. Mortify pride, therefore, and a lowly spirit will easily be reconciled to a low condition.
2. We must put on patience, bearing patience, to submit to the will of God in the affliction, and waiting patience, to expect the issue in God's due time. The patient in spirit are here opposed to the proud in spirit, for where there is humility there will be patience. Those will be thankful for any thing who own they deserve nothing at God's hand, and the patient are said to be better than the proud; they are more easy to themselves, more acceptable to others, and more likely to see a good issue of their troubles.
3. We must govern our passion with wisdom
and grace (
4. We must make the best of that which is
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11 Wisdom is good with an inheritance: and by it there is profit to them that see the sun. 12 For wisdom is a defence, and money is a defence: but the excellency of knowledge is, that wisdom giveth life to them that have it. 13 Consider the work of God: for who can make that straight, which he hath made crooked? 14 In the day of prosperity be joyful, but in the day of adversity consider: God also hath set the one over against the other, to the end that man should find nothing after him. 15 All things have I seen in the days of my vanity: there is a just man that perisheth in his righteousness, and there is a wicked man that prolongeth his life in his wickedness. 16 Be not righteous over much; neither make thyself over wise: why shouldest thou destroy thyself? 17 Be not over much wicked, neither be thou foolish: why shouldest thou die before thy time? 18 It is good that thou shouldest take hold of this; yea, also from this withdraw not thine hand: for he that feareth God shall come forth of them all. 19 Wisdom strengtheneth the wise more than ten mighty men which are in the city. 20 For there is not a just man upon earth, that doeth good, and sinneth not. 21 Also take no heed unto all words that are spoken; lest thou hear thy servant curse thee: 22 For oftentimes also thine own heart knoweth that thou thyself likewise hast cursed others.
Solomon, in these verses, recommends wisdom to us as the best antidote against those distempers of mind which we are liable to, by reason of the vanity and vexation of spirit that there are in the things of this world. Here are some of the praises and the precepts of wisdom.
I. The praises of wisdom. Many things are
here said in its commendation, to engage us to get and retain
wisdom. 1. Wisdom is necessary to the right managing and improving
of our worldly possessions: Wisdom is good with an
inheritance, that is, an inheritance is good for little without
wisdom. Though a man have a great estate, though it come easily to
him, by descent from his ancestors, if he have not wisdom to use it
for the end for which he has it, he had better have been without
it. Wisdom is not only good for the poor, to make them content and
easy, but it is good for the rich too, good with riches to keep a
man from getting hurt by them, and to enable a man to do good with
them. Wisdom is good of itself, and makes a man useful; but,
if he have a good estate with it, that will put him into a greater
capacity of being useful, and with his wealth he may be more
serviceable to his generation than he could have been without it;
he will also make friends to himself,
II. Some of the precepts of wisdom, that wisdom which will be of so much advantage to us.
1. We must have an eye to God and to his
hand in every thing that befals us (
2. We must accommodate ourselves to the
various dispensations of Providence that respect us, and do the
work and duty of the day in its day,
3. We must not be offended at the greatest
prosperity of wicked people, nor at the saddest calamities that may
befal the godly in this life,
4. Wisdom will be of use both for caution
to saints in their way, and for a check to sinners in their way.
(1.) As to saints, it will engage them to proceed and persevere in
their righteousness, and yet will be an admonition to them to take
heed of running into extremes: A just man may perish in his
righteousness, but let him not, by his own imprudence and rash
zeal, pull trouble upon his own head, and then reflect upon
Providence as dealing hardly with him. "Be not righteous
overmuch,
5. Wisdom will direct us in the mean
between two extremes, and keep us always in the way of our duty,
which we shall find a plain and safe way (
6. Wisdom will teach us how to conduct ourselves in reference to the sins and offences of others, which commonly contribute more than any thing else to the disturbance of our repose, which contract both guilt and grief.
(1.) Wisdom teaches us not to expect that
those we deal with should be faultless; we ourselves are not so,
none are so, no, not the best. This wisdom strengthens the
wise as much as any thing, and arms them against the danger
that arises from provocation (
(2.) Wisdom teaches us not to be
quicksighted, or quickscented, in apprehending and resenting
affronts, but to wink at many of the injuries that are done us, and
act as if we did not see them (
(3.) Wisdom puts us in mind of our own
faults (
23 All this have I proved by wisdom: I said, I will be wise; but it was far from me. 24 That which is far off, and exceeding deep, who can find it out? 25 I applied mine heart to know, and to search, and to seek out wisdom, and the reason of things, and to know the wickedness of folly, even of foolishness and madness: 26 And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her. 27 Behold, this have I found, saith the preacher, counting one by one, to find out the account: 28 Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found. 29 Lo, this only have I found, that God hath made man upright; but they have sought out many inventions.
Solomon had hitherto been proving the
vanity of the world and its utter insufficiency to make men happy;
now here he comes to show the vileness of sin, and its certain
tendency to make men miserable; and this, as the former, he proves
from his own experience, and it was a dear-bought experience. He is
here, more than any where in all this book, putting on the habit of
a penitent. He reviews what he had been discoursing of already, and
tells us that what he had said was what he knew and was well
assured of, and what he resolved to stand by: All this have I
proved by wisdom,
I. He owns and laments the deficiencies of his wisdom. He had wisdom enough to see the vanity of the world and to experience that that would not make a portion for a soul. But, when he came to enquire further, he found himself at a loss; his eye was too dim, his line was too short, and, though he discovered this, there were many other things which he could not prove by wisdom.
1. His searches were industrious. God had
given him a capacity for knowledge above any; he set up with a
great stock of wisdom; he had the largest opportunities of
improving himself that ever any man had; and, (1.) He resolved, if
it were possible, to gain his point: I said, I will be wise.
He earnestly desired it as highly valuable; he fully designed it as
that which he looked upon to be attainable; he determined not to
sit down short of it,
2. Yet his success was not answerable or
satisfying: "I said, I will be wise, but it was far from me;
I could not compass it. After all, This only I know that I know
nothing, and the more I know the more I see there is to be
known, and the more sensible I am of my own ignorance. That
which is far off, and exceedingly deep, who can find it out?"
He means God himself, his counsels and his works; when he searched
into these he presently found himself puzzled and run aground. He
could not order his speech by reason of darkness. It is higher
than heaven, what can he do?
II. He owns and laments the instances of his folly in which he had exceeded, as, in wisdom, he came short. Here is,
1. His enquiry concerning the evil of sin.
He applied his heart to know the wickedness of folly, even of
foolishness and madness. Observe, (1.) The knowledge of sin is
a difficult knowledge, and hard to be attained; Solomon took pains
for it. Sin has many disguises with which it palliates itself, as
being loth to appear sin, and it is very hard to strip it of these
and to see it in its true nature and colours. (2.) It is necessary
to our repentance for sin that we be acquainted with the evil of
it, as it is necessary to the cure of a disease to know its nature,
causes, and malignity. St. Paul therefore valued the divine
law, because it discovered sin to him,
2. The result of this enquiry.
(1.) He now discovered more than ever of
the evil of that great sin which he himself had been guilty of, the
loving of many strange women,
(2.) He now discovered more than ever of
the general corruption of man's nature. He traces up that stream to
the fountain, as his father had done before him, on a like occasion
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