This chapter is added to Solomon's proverbs, some
think because it is of the same author, supposing king Lemuel to be
king Solomon; others only because it is of the same nature, though
left in writing by another author, called Lemuel; however it be, it
is a prophecy, and therefore given by inspiration and direction of
God, which Lemuel was under in the writing of it, and putting it
into this form, as his mother was in dictating to him the matter of
it. Here is, I. An exhortation to Lemuel, a young prince, to take
heed of the sins he would be tempted to and to do the duties of the
place he was called to,
1 The words of king Lemuel, the prophecy that his mother taught him. 2 What, my son? and what, the son of my womb? and what, the son of my vows? 3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings. 4 It is not for kings, O Lemuel, it is not for kings to drink wine; nor for princes strong drink: 5 Lest they drink, and forget the law, and pervert the judgment of any of the afflicted. 6 Give strong drink unto him that is ready to perish, and wine unto those that be of heavy hearts. 7 Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more. 8 Open thy mouth for the dumb in the cause of all such as are appointed to destruction. 9 Open thy mouth, judge righteously, and plead the cause of the poor and needy.
Most interpreters are of opinion that
Lemuel is Solomon; the name signifies one that is for God,
or devoted to God; and so it agrees well enough with that
honourable name which, by divine appointment, was given to Solomon
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Now, in this mother's (this queen mother's) catechism, observe,
I. Her expostulation with the young prince,
by which she lays hold of him, claims an interest in him, and
awakens his attention to what she is about to say (
II. The caution she gives him against those
two destroying sins of uncleanness and drunkenness,
which, if he allowed himself in them, would certainly be his ruin.
1. Against uncleanness (
III. The counsel she gives him to do good.
1. He must do good with his wealth. Great men must not think that
they have their abundance only that out of it they may made
provision for the flesh, to fulfil the lusts of it, and may the
more freely indulge their own genius; no, but that with it they may
relieve such as are in distress,
10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. 11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. 12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. 13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. 14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. 15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. 16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. 17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. 18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. 19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. 20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. 21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. 22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. 23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. 24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. 25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. 26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. 27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. 28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. 29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. 30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised. 31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
This description of the virtuous
woman is designed to show what wives the women should make and
what wives the men should choose; it consists of twenty-two verses,
each beginning with a letter of the Hebrew alphabet in order, as
some of the Psalms, which makes some think it was no part of
the lesson which Lemuel's mother taught him, but a poem by itself,
written by some other hand, and perhaps had been commonly repeated
among the pious Jews, for the ease of which it was made
alphabetical. We have the abridgment of it in the New Testament
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I. A general enquiry after such a one
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II. A particular description of her and of her excellent qualifications.
1. She is very industrious to recommend
herself to her husband's esteem and affection. Those that are good
really will be good relatively. A good woman, if she be brought
into the marriage state, will be a good wife, and make it her
business to please her husband,
2. She is one that takes pains in the duty
of her place and takes pleasure in it. This part of her character
is much enlarged upon here. (1.) She hates to sit still and do
nothing: She eats not the bread of idleness,
3. She is one that makes what she does to
turn to a good account, by her prudent management of it. She does
not toil all night and catch nothing; no, she herself perceives
that her merchandise is good (
4. She takes care of her family and all the
affairs of it, gives meat to her household (
5. She is charitable to the poor,
6. She is discreet and obliging in all her discourse, not talkative, censorious, nor peevish, as some are, that know how to take pains; no, she opens her mouth with wisdom; when she does speak, it is with a great deal of prudence and very much to the purpose; you may perceive by every word she says how much she governs herself by the rules of wisdom. She not only takes prudent measures herself, but gives prudent advice to others; and this not as assuming the authority of a dictator, but with the affection of a friend and an obliging air: In her tongue is the law of kindness; all she says is under the government of that law. The law of love and kindness is written in the heart, but it shows itself in the tongue; if we are kindly affectioned one to another, it will appear by affectionate expression. It is called a law of kindness, because it gives law to others, to all she converses with. Her wisdom and kindness together put a commanding power into all she says; they command respect, they command compliance. How forcible are right words! In her tongue is the law of grace, or mercy (so some read it), understanding it of the word and law of God, which she delights to talk of among her children and servants. She is full of pious religious discourse, and manages it prudently, which shows how full her heart is of another world even when her hands are most busy about this world.
7. That which completes and crowns her
character is that she fears the Lord,
III. The happiness of this virtuous woman.
1. She has the comfort and satisfaction of
her virtue in her own mind (
2. She is a great blessing to her
relations,
3. She gets the good word of all her
neighbours, as Ruth did, whom all the city of her people
knew to be a virtuous woman,
Twenty chapters of the book of Proverbs (beginning with ch. x. and ending with ch. xxix.), consisting mostly of entire sentences in each verse, could not well be reduced to proper heads, and the contents of them gathered; I have therefore here put the contents of all these chapters together, which perhaps may be of some use to those who desire to see at once all that is said of any one head in these chapters. Some of the verses, perhaps, I have not put under the same heads that another would have put them under, but the most of them fall (I hope) naturally enough to the places I have assigned them.